9 steps to destroy a child’s vision as a parent

From the students I work with, I see those 9 fatal mistakes of parents. 

They inevitably result in a shattering effect on a child’s vision, and avoiding them, in contrast, builds a supporting atmosphere for the child to grow his own perspective.

Here are the 9 steps to destroy a child’s vision.

1. Shut him up when he asks a curious question.
2. Compare him openly with one of his friends to highlight a negative behavior he has.
3. Tell him to read while not reading at all at home.
4. Tell him to stop using his phone while not stopping using phones at all at home.
5. Tell him not to lie while keep being dishonest from time to time.
6. Refer to him as “This” instead of his name (not very common in English speaking countries, but it can be heard in various other languages)
7. Buy everything he wants.
8. Tell him to be nice ALWAYS.
9. Tell him not to speak without permission.

Parents, avoid them.

No matter how hard to raise your child, avoid them.

You do not need to be a mentor for your child.

In fact, not being a mentor is a great way to let him find his own way.

While you are raising your children, what you do doesn’t really matter. What you don’t do matters.